Love

What is love?

This blog is dedicated to Michelle because she gave me the idea :) lol


What do we know about love?

Some people in high school believe that they have figured out everything about the opposite gender.
They think that they know everything about being a relationships.
All the Do's and Dont's.
But I think that none of us really know what love is till we find the one.
And even if we do, he or she might not even be the one.
Most of you would probably agree with me that we, high school kids, dont know much about love.
And we wont know till college or beyond.
I dont think we will ever know what true love is and everything about relationships.
Even in college and beyond.
Not that we will really know.
But no one knows EVERYTHING about relationships
you know?

Im not criticizing you if you are in a relationship and going "what the betch vicky thats so not true. me and my bf/gf are happy together and we totally understand each other and were totally comfortable with each other"
I know. I know.
I know how that feels like.
Im just stating my opinion about this whole love topic.
Not about crushes and relationships.
I mean its great when youre with someone who really cares about you and loves you.
Everything in the world feels like its going right.
And you have another happy thing to look foward to that day when you wake up :)

Im just saying....some people think they know all about it.
But love and relationships are about the ups and downs, love and loss, new and old, laughs and tears, etc.
Which are the risks yet rewards of relationships :)
OK. Im not putting down high school relationships.
Im just thinking about them
Cause theyre fun and all but i dont know.
Im not saying I regard relationships as fun and games.
Im not that mean lol
For me, I would like to be with someone who (the list below) and will support me without distracting me from my school and family life.

My Ideal Boyfriend:

• Ditch his friends for me
• Wait for me after classes.
• Spend his free time with me rather than playing blockles.
• Comforts me when Im down.
• Polite but outgoing
• Gentle and cares about my feelings
• Give me a hug or a kiss once in a while
• Listen to what I have to say...even if its venting
• Isnt pervy
• Makes me laugh when Im down. But still comforts me
• Can dance
• Dance in the middle of the hallway and doesnt care
• And then dance and sing with me in the middle of main :P
• Isnt messy and doesnt stink like a pig hahaha
• Talk freely on whatever is on his mind....even if he thinks its weird...and it probably isnt cause he cant top my wierdness :D
• Call me up once in a while to say hi (its a little gesture but means a lot)
• Not embarassed of me
• Supports me in everything I do
• Not afraid to tell me if Im making a mistake
• Will tell me the truth...even if i do look fat in that dress
• Isnt failing classes...i know...only at harker haha
• Romantic
• Fun Fun Fun
• Doesnt criticize and/or put down the performing arts
• Isnt loud at innapropiate times
• Start a convo and not try to play hard to get (-_- that really drives the girl away)

So yeah.
I dont know.
Im waiting for the right guy.
Usually great guys pop out of nowhere
"Some say that good things take time. But really great things happen in a blink of an eye"
Until then, Im going to live my life to the fullest
enjoy every single day of my awesome single life :D

So Im going to leave you guys with the wise words of Joanna:
"Were only young once...soon we will be a poop with wrinkles. We are all going to DIE and some VERY PAINFUL HORRIBLE GRUESOME DEAHTS...so savor life :)"

(btw...this blog isnt cuase im "looking for a guy" or "interested in a guy"....according to ram -__-....its just a random subject i decided to free write about so yeahpp)